08 December 2009
Volunteer Reporters Needed
03 December 2009
NewTube (ish)
Yes I know you all know that Bully Free Zone has a YouTube account but you haven't seen the new channel look. Head on over to http://www.youtube.com/bullyfreezone and take a look. Tell us what you thinkin the comments section (click the comments link at the top of this post)
24 September 2009
Opportunities with the Youth Action Network
The first is a reporter role; you will be provided with a camera and receive training in how to collect case studies on Youth Action. These case studies will be published on the Youth Action Network website and showcase projects around the country which are good at delivering youth action and allow the young people involved a say in the project.
The second role will involve inspiring youth action and training organisations and young people around youth action to ensure that the organisations in our network are delivering the best quality of youth action to their young people as possible and allow the young people to have a voice in their volunteering.
Young people will have the opportunity to:
- Receive training for both roles outlined above
- Inspire Youth Action in your local community
- Travel around the country delivering workshops on youth action
- Travel around the country to attend socials with other young volunteers in the network
- Attend residential weekends to receive training and social residentials
- Act as reporters and advocates for the Youth Action movement
- Full expenses
Get involved
There will be a recruitment day in Birmingham on the 17th of October if you know any young people that may be interested in this opportunity please contact Mukith Miah at mukith@youthactionnetwork.org.uk 0121 455 9732 / 07852 955319
24 August 2009
Finally Getting Round To It
The main emphasis of the meeting was to think of some ideas for, activities and events which could be done to raise the profile of BFZ and to provide entertainment for children who benefit from the time and effort BFZ provides for them.
After much fumbling about and Jaffa cake eating we eventually came up with some ideas (after much prompt from Pete...) using the handouts and volunteered for activities already suggested that we do and those which we felt we could do, hence why I’m writing this blog. Ideas suggested and volunteered for included:
Fundraising events
'Film Night'
A Video production
A drama production
Etc...
It was then decided that the following Thursday (6/8/09) we would meet and work on the video production as well as a viewing of the new head office on Chorley Old Road. Much fun ensued…
from the Chris @ BFZ blog
11 August 2009
Guess-the-google! Addiction Alert!
Guess-the-Google
25 July 2009
A letter
Dear BFZ,
I suffered from severe bullying consistently throughout high school. This started small with petty name calling, and pushing, but as it continued got worse and worse with each year. By the time I was in year 10 a group of girls had made a malicious website about me which was both racist and crude. This was passed around to everyone in my High School. Despite this the teachers didn`t manage to put an end to the abuse, and by year 11 a large group of pupils planned to follow me home and attack me. Although the incident happened just over four years ago, I still remember it as if it were yesterday. I was faced with the bullies alone, and had no choice but to fight back.
That experience was one of the most frightening ones of my life, to know that you one are almost against the entire school and that even your friends were too frightened to stand up for you. In defending myself one of the bullies ended up worse off than myself and took the matter to court. I hoped that this would be the end of the bullying and that the courts would see just how frightened I was but unfortunately I was wrongly convicted as they stated that I had defended myself “too much”. The bullying didn`t stop there either. When I returned to school I had to get escorted from lesson to lesson, eat my lunch alone, and even leave 10 minutes earlier to prevent them from attacking me again. One of the bullies stated that now I had a conviction I could never go on to college or be a lawyer like I had always dreamed of being.
I am telling you this story, as it was during this time that I was given a 3 months probation sentence and was working with a member of your team, Pete. I worked with Pete over a number of months and engaged in a number of different activities which allowed me time and space to be able to express myself, in the end I produced a poem called “I know” which has featured on the BFZ website.
Producing that piece of writing was very therapeutic for me and helped me to deal with my feelings. I will never forget how difficult those years of my life were, and how much BFZ helped me.
I am now studying Creative and Professional Writing in London and am about to go into my final year. I will never forget what you have done for me!
Yours Sincerely,
D
17 July 2009
Girl bullied to death for being "too pretty"
Simone Grice leapt 40ft off a bridge to her death after suffering years of bullying, despite the pleas of two passers-by.
The teenager had recently been removed from school to be home tutored after suffering at the hands of a group of girls who were, according to Simones mother Linda, 45, "jealous of her good looks".
Read more here
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14 July 2009
Can you help young people to 'Follow the Heard'?
We are looking for original, inspirational stories/poems etc that can show why it is good to talk to someone if you are being bullied. The stories will then be included on the Follow the Heard website (when its built), be used as inspiration during a residential for vulnerable young people and some may even be brought to life using audio equipment and form part of a Schools resource pack.
Anyone who can help should contact Kev Walsh at office@bullyfreezone.co.uk ASAP.
09 July 2009
ASCII FTW!
Thanks @yamerias
Video Game Violence: Where's the Harm?
It seems hardly a day goes by nowadays without a report of some kid shooting up his school ‘because he played Counter-Strike’ or of how young minds are being corrupted by ‘triple x pornography in games marketed to teenagers’. It was only yesterday that the infamous Jack Thompson put the blame for the recent NIU tragedy where a 27 year old gunned down students supposedly because he played Counter-Strike 4 years previously (and had absolutely sod-all to do with the fact he had stopped taking his medication for mental illness).
Like it or not, violence in videogames is big news at the moment. Be it school shootings in the US or links to kids and knife culture here in the UK. Forums everywhere from xbox.com to IGN and CVG are full of gamers up in arms that their beloved pastime is being brought into disrepute. However, is there more to this than gamers realise?
The fact is that violent game, as well as violent books; films; images, cartoons or websites can, and will, have some form of effect on the individual engaging with them. The effect it has however is entirely down to the suggestibility of the individual concerned.
During the 19th century Antonin Artaud created the Theatre of Cruelty. This is a type of stage theatre that was designed to be so visually shocking and sickening in its use of violent imagery that it was meant to have a cathartic effect on the audience, cleansing them of their anger, aggression and fear. By witnessing others engaging in acts that a person is meant to subconsciously desire allows them to purge themselves of pent up emotions and thus lead a better and more fulfilling life. If we look at the popularity of public executions in previous times, and even to the present day in many countries across the globe, we can see how this may well be true.
People have an innate desire to witness suffering. It somehow makes ourselves feel better. We love watching Comic Relief and Children in Need with all their stories of third world suffering and we gain some warped satisfaction from viewing images of war on TV. We KNOW that what we are viewing is horrible; that what we are witnessing is distressing and sickening; but we still watch it. Why? Because deep down the only way we can feel better is by reminding ourselves of what we are capable of, and feel more powerful knowing that we have the restraint not to carry out the acts we see.
The same theory applies to videogames, horror films and almost all other forms of ‘unengaged violence’. We sit down with our 360 pads and tap the B button to unleash chainsaw hell on our unsuspecting foe and a grin spreads across our faces. We let stream profanity after profanity when we get our arse handed to us due to a lucky plasma grenade…and we LOVE IT. Not just because it’s entertaining but because we are fulfilling those subconscious fantasies we so desire everyday but that our consciousness, and society, forbid to us to engage in.
However, what would happen if your consciousness was affected in some way?
It is well known and documented by psychologists, doctors and psychiatrists that certain things can affect how a person’s conscious and subconscious mind interact.
• Age – as you grow older the border between the conscious and subconscious mind becomes more prominent and thus much easier for us to avoid acting on impulse. This is largely down to learning the ways of the world and the laws of the society in which we live. Children therefore are more prone to act on subconscious impulse than adults.
• Testosterone – the greater the level of testosterone in your body the more prone to act on aggressive impulses you will be. It becomes much more difficult for a person to restrict the extent to which they express their aggressive impulses.
• Drugs/Alcohol – the more under the influence of drugs and alcohol you become the more the border between conscious and subconscious blurs. The easier it becomes to act on subconscious impulse.
• Mental Health – if you are already suffering from mental health problems then the higher the risk of you acting on subconscious impulse.
Obviously these things alone would not necessarily mean that you are going to go out and shoot down a few pedestrians but if these things are combined with other catalysts such as bullying, peer-pressure or exposure to violent images etc then the likelihood of engaging in a violent act is increased.
Therefore a child who is being bulled at school, going through puberty, witnesses’ domestic violence at home and plays Halo for 13 hours a day is more likely to commit an act of violence than a 28 year old that has had three pints of Golden Boot and has spent 4hours playing Gears of War.
The fact is that videogames DO affect the people that play them. Are they the reason why Stephen Kazmierczak decided to walk into his old University on Thursday 14th February 2008 and shoot as many people as he could before turning the gun on himself? Of course they aren’t but there is the possibility that, due to his mental health issues, playing violent videogames could have increased the probability of him committing a violent act.
How? and why?
Which leads me to ask what daft things have you done recently? Tell us in the comments section below or over on twitter by sending a tweet to @bfzonline. stick the tag #sillyme at the end so we can serch them easier.
Pictures welcome :D
29 June 2009
Guilt!
Isolated, left out of games,
Smashed the lenses in his NHS frames
Guilt? Don’t know the meaning of the word.
Punched and kicked, stones are thrown,
Money stolen, followed home,
Vindictive texts sent to his phone.
Guilt? Don’t know the meaning of the word.
Yells and screams, cries of pain.
I keep on going all the same.
Just for fun, it’s just a game.
Guilt? Don’t know the meaning of the word.
It got to him, screwed up his head,
Went to his room, climbed into bed.
Overdose, now he’s dead.
Guilt? Eternal.
Anon, BFZ.
to learn more about Bully Free Zone and how we help families and young people affected by bullying please visit www.bullyfreezone.co.uk
Hello world!
It's been a while since we spoke. Finding the time to blog is difficult sometimes but i promise we'll make the effort from now on. The sun is shining and the sky is blue today.
But hey, you don't come here for a weather report, you want to know what's going on in the BFZ world.
Currently Kev is training some brand spanking new volunteers over at Turtan Media Arts College. They are a great group and I look forward to working with them in the future.
Thursday Drop-in's are still well attended and any volunteers are welcome to pop down between 2pm and 6pm. No pressure... its there if you want it.
Finally, i was thinking of incorporating the VAT blog with a more generic BFZ blog in the future. What do you think? good idea or should i keep things separate? let me know what you think.
Anyway. Tata for now
Kev xxx
28 May 2009
Volunteers Week at BFZ!
Afternoon all.
Just thought i'd pop by and let you all know what we have planned for National Volunteers Week taking place next week, beginning 1st June.
Some of the volunteers have already been out to do some interviews with the likes of Tower FM ready for the week so you'll be hearing lots from them during the week if you are tuned in.
We also have an ope-day planned between 2pm and 6pm next Thursday 4th June for anyone, and we mean ANYONE (aged 16-25) who might be interested in getting involved with the work of Bully Free Zone. Come along and see what goes on and sign up for one of the numerous action teams.
Finally on Saturday the 6th June the volunteers will be out and about in the town centre doing good deeds for all and sundry. If this sounds like something you fancy doing why not get in touch and you to can take part. Just ring the office on 01204 454958.
I won't be around next week unfortunately (Skegness beckons) but I'll be back the week after and i expect to see lots more new volunteers eager to get stuck in.
In the meantime, behave yourselves.
Kev
23 April 2009
CALLING ALL VOLUNTEERS
- Activities Officer
- Fundraising Officer
All we want to know is your name and why you want the job.
And guess what YOU DON'T NEED EXPERIENCE!!!
If you want to apply please email: vat@bullyfreezone.co.uk
The deadline is THURSDAY 30th APRIL 2009
Hope to hear from you all soon x
11 March 2009
Wanna job? Get paid for playwork this summer.
The Play Service is looking to recruit casual playworkers to work on a variety of summer schemes across the borough including childcare and open access projects. Experience of working with children and young people aged between 4 and 13 is essential. Work available includes either playcare work at one of the full day schemes (37 hours) run at various sites including community centres, play centres, and schools or free sessional open-access opportunities in similar venues for local children and young people (up to 30 hours). You will provide a safe child centred environment offering creative play and care opportunities to children and young people aged 4 to 13.
Successful candidates will be required to take part in a full week’s pre-summer training (20th – 24th July) and must be available every day Monday to Friday between 27th July and 4th September 2009.
After summer there will be an opportunity to work additional hours either at one of our after school clubs covering staff sickness or holidays, or during other school holidays ie half terms, Christmas, Easter etc.
All posts are subject to an enhanced Criminal Records Bureau check and you must be aged 18 or over by the 20th July.
Application packs available from the One Stop Shop, Bolton Town Hall or online at http://www.bolton.gov.uk/ from Thursday 5th March with a closing date of Thursday 19th March 2009.
05 March 2009
Election Results
58 young people received ballot papers with a total return of 31%.
Two of the positions were uncontested and so we are delighted to welcome Abdulahi Isalk to the post of Communications Officer and Amino-Sahro Yahye Nur to the position of Fundraising Officer.
In the position of General Secretary for the group we are happy to welcome Fiona Bond and finally the position of Chairperson goes to Alicia White.
We would like to thank all those that took part in the election and wish those elected all the best for the coming electoral term.
02 March 2009
The BFZ Gift Shop
Various items from hoodies and t-shirts to mugs and bags can be bought online and delivered to your door and what's more, you get the lovely feeling of happiness knowing that you are helping raise money for Bully Free Zone as well.
I'll upload a picture of me wearing my Glow-in-the Dark Francis Hoodie later in the week but in the meantime just pop on over to the Gift Shop and have a look at what's on offer. You won't be dissapointed.
12 February 2009
Spread a little love our way this February
Whilst Kev is often inundated with cards at this time of year poor Francis and Spud and Bully Free Zone don't get anything. So why not, this year, spread a little love the way of BFZ by printing out our special "spare change" box.
Just follow the link above, print out onto some card then follow the instructions to have your own little collection box. Fill it with spare change then send whatever you collect to us here at BFZ Towers.
Happy Valentines Day
BFZ
xxxxx
26 January 2009
Welcome to 2009
We have LOTS planned for the year ahead. Many many exciting projects on the horizon and lots more opportunities for volunteers to get involved so keep coming back here to find out about anything thats going on.